Friday, June 15, 2012
I completed my third chemo of this three week series on Wednesday. I now will take one week off before I start the series again. Like the ones before, I don't remember much about the three hours going through the chemo process. I do remember that Tory and Kath were with me and how supportive all the OSHU doctors and nurses were. I have had some good days since walking around Costco, socializing with friends I bump into, and enjoying getting out to anywhere. Since I was finished at Western Oregon University on Monday, I now have to make sure that I get out each day as opposed to staying at home. I appreciate my fiends and family that get me out of the house and concentrating on other things. I experience pain everyday, but have found ways to reduce the intensity and level. I have discovered that when I am using my walker and the pain begins to increase, that I will have to stop and stand for several minutes before I can continue. Also when the pain gets too great, I need to find a place to lay on my side and the pain reduces quickly. When I am at Costco, I make a direct route to the summer lawn chairs to spread out. Kath and I have been seen to be sitting in the cuddle chairs every other day over the past week. Love the cushions!! I have been seeing an additional doctor this week who works closely with our oncologist to concentrate on reducing the pain. So far it seems to be helping a bit, but time will tell. Like everything, it all is in your attitude. Staying positive in all that you do is so important. I am getting use to the stares at Costco when they see me having to sit on my side at the tables when I am eating my pizza. They ask me if I am okay and I say that I am great. I am just learning to find a way to make the best out of the situation. Yes, I can't do many of the activities that I use to do everyday, but I can still go on living making the most out of what I can do. Like always. I love reading your comments and thoughts. It is another important aspect of my life! Love you all!!
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Ron,
Sumpter is being remodelled this summer forcing me to clean out collected treasures...of which I found two...one was the White elephant gift I got at Wendy's house...a picture of you sunning while snow camping and a picture with you and your C-kiva Harem. It made me smile and remember the fun times. Hang in there Ron...you are the most positive person I know!
OK-so more for sharing.....I am trying so hard to decide if I should continue to coach Maddie and the 6th grade girls next year. I keep playing in my head-"what would Mr C. do","what skills was I doing and at what level was I doing it in the sixth grade??" "Am I a good enough coach and what do they need to progress to the next level??"
Times have changed so much since the Rabbit days!!! But this is what I know you taught me and they have learned- So far my group of girls all know: How to follow through "like their hand is in the cookie jar"; when shooting a layin it is "like there is a string from their elbow to their knee"; basics first before fancy plays; how to be excellent team mates and have good sportsmanship; and if our defense is good enough we will just beat the opponents on fast breaks all day long!!!
When I think of some of the gifts and memories you have given us I remember: shooting layins during my recess so I could perfect them; never asking how many points I scored in a game because it was not about just one person; shooting 100 shots a day at home would make a difference in my ability to play; listeneng to "We are the Champions" as much as we could and believing it; learning that being the star on a team was not as important as being a good leader.
So as she goes through tryouts in about six months, we will see what happens. But I know whether I continue to coach my daughter or be her number one fan, I will strive to instill in her all the things I learned from basketball and from you!!!!!
What a crazy full circle if Maddie plays at West and Tory is still coaching!! That makes me smile!!!
I hope this makes you smile! Love to you and the whole Carey Clan and hope to see you soon!!!!
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